"Overcoming in the Process" Part 3 of "6 words that changed my art forever"

Hey, If you are still hanging in there through this series, give me a shout right here.

I'm truly so glad you are here!

In the journal entry last week, I shared about making that first mark! A not so easy, at times, but so simple concept of breaking through the push back that almost always stops us from creating. A bit about fear and whole lot about overcoming in art, work, life, and more.

Painting the opposite of my pain (those glorious, life giving, 6 words), and Overcoming the push back in making that first mark have been 2 parts of my journey as an artist and a human being on this side of heaven that have informed the next piece I share with you in this journal post.

Read Part 1 and Part 2

"Overcoming in Process"

I, for a very short time in high school, was a long distance runner on the track team. Let me just say that I would never ever describe myself as an athlete or anything close to that. I laugh at the thought that I actually did this when I think about it.

Heart pounding, I approached the little line on the track next to the amazons with long legs and zero body fat. I dug in the ball of my starter foot as I was coached to do, leaned in and waited for the starter gun to go off which meant that first step accelerating me into a stride and rhythm that would carry me to the finish line a mile away was about to commence.

I heard it! Off I went! My, not so tall, legs did their thing, but I was lapped by those athletic chicks who seemed to actually enjoy this torment.

I never won a race, never came in second or third unless I count the time that there were only 3 of us running a 2 mile race.

Recounting this short season of my Freshman high school experience, I smile because I now, in my mid 50's, see the value of it and a bit of a comparison in current life.

I never won or placed, but I always finished.

• That's some grit that I never gave myself credit for having.

I may have been the one bringing up the rear in every single race, but what I learned in that season was so valuable.

• That is being teachable, another thing I didn't value at the time.

Not only did I finish, but despite having experienced the process, I showed up at the starting line for the next race.

• evidence of not thinking that what I had done before were failures

In creating art, making that first mark is a bit like hearing that starter pistol and pushing off to run. Now, you're in it! You're running....You are painting, making a series of decisions, interacting with your supplies and materials and praying all those decisions add up to the vision you began with. The goal being a worthy, sellable, well executed end result with a life giving message...that is, in my case, a visual encouragement for the one who will make it a part of their story.

This is the win for me. It's the ribbon, the trophy. It's my why.

Seeing someone connect with my art, knowing that it was uniquely created for them, even before I know them, is the ultimate.......... but the finish line, for this artist, is in the process.

The process isn't a competition against anyone but me and what might limit me, but that's my race to run.

Why would a runner who has never come in first show up at the starter line every time?

In thinking about this, I believe it's because what was happening during the run was more important to me than the ribbon I might receive at the end.

I found myself just as satisfied when I finished, having overcome, aches, tiredness, and out of breath moments, as the joy watching the "winners" receive those ribbons.

I would cheer and smile, even tear up.

I didn't think it was a weird thing until someone pointed out that, to them, it was.

It was weird to them because my ultimate goals were different than theirs.

It remains today that...yes, it's a win win when I step onto the track, get into the race, overcome the limiting thoughts, pressures, lies that sneak in, make marks, create fluid brushstrokes and see a vision come to life in a piece of art.

Overcoming in the process of it all added more depth and information to the final result.

That piece, that final resolved painting, becomes the ribbon that I get to present to someone else that is the reminder that they win.

I have been asked if I keep paintings that I've done and if it's hard to let them go.

I can honestly share that the painting is for me in the process, but when it's complete, it belongs to the one it was created for and I no longer have an attachment to it.

I can look at it in someone else's possession and smile, remember the process in which it was created, but rejoice over the fact that it belongs to the Collector.

Win, Win! Remembering the why and the win, carries us through the process and reminds us to act as overcomers because we are!

Blessings,

Tina

Part 4...Finishing Well

"Make that First Mark" Part 2 of "6 Words that Changed My Art Forever"

Read Part 1 here

The earliest memory I have of creating was being very little, maybe even a toddler. I was sitting in a driveway in the gravel. I had assembled a pile of rocks, sticks, a metal bowl with a mix of dirt and water and I was building.

Stacking stones, gluing with the muddy mix, artfully arranging the sticks, and adding a well placed leaf here and there for flare.

Did anyone teach this little girl to take everyday, seemingly ordinary, materials and put them together to build a structure? No, she was just playing. She wasn't afraid of what someone would say about her creation. She wasn't hesitant about whether she'd make a mistake or not. She was freely creating with no opposing thought. She was full on in artist mode without having the defining term that gave her the "permission" to create. We witness kids doing this all the time.

I remember many times like this, building structures in the woods behind my Grandparent's house where time passed joyfully...I didn't even consider time passing. It wasn't even a thought that I hadn't been back for a snack or anything. It was joy and freedom with no limits.

Do you have similar memories? Have you had this experience as an adult?

Does it take you back to a time before a nasty word, a judgment, a physical encounter, something you saw that took your innocence, or a decision you made had left it's mark on you?

Whether you are reading this as a creative, artist, or someone who works in another field, I believe you are not here by accident.

What causes us to be stalled in creating anything? Whether it's making a painting that the world will see or creating a pleasing and informative spreadsheet for your new boss, it's often in the first step or in making that first mark that finds us stuck.

But allow me to talk in the case of the artist for a moment. I'm sure that most everyone will find a nugget for themselves as I share.

In Part 1 of "6 Words that Changed my Art forever", I spoke about how the phrase "Paint the Opposite of Your Pain" was like a directional sign for me that made me take a bold first step after standing at a crossroads as an artist and really as a human having experienced deep pain.

Having the realization that others needed a message of hope and healing and having a confirmation that this is what my art has always been about, the call to go deeper into a ministry of creating visual reminders for people to stay the course, be strong, seek truth, and loving on them in an artful way was what I would be doing in creating art the rest of my life.

But what was the first step?

I relate it to the intimidation I've experienced of approaching a blank canvas with a big vision.

The vision is usually bigger that my ability and quite a stretch for me, but coming to the place where the vast blankness of the canvas is before me, loaded brush in hand, and who this painting might be for, I'm faced with making that first mark.

We can have it all together, all the supplies and information we need, and still get tripped up when it comes to that first mark.

Because all the the gathered materials, supplies, even the vision will just sit there lifelessly and occupy space until you interact with it, it means that you are the difference. What you have is the "magic" if you will. Nothing happens until the hand of the artist, the creator, makes the first move.

This moment is significant...that is why the push back can be so strong in this moment.

That seems to be when the lies, which are the residue left by the pain in our lives, come back to limit and define and create a fear that keeps us in hesitation.

I believe more than I can express that the first step in battling this is just make that mark!

It's not going to be wrong or something that isn't fixable. It's the first strike in opposition to the lie that says..."this won't be good enough", "you can't do this", or "who do you think you are?"

When we take that first step, make a mark when you've never painted before, write the first word of that book that is on your heart, apply for that job, sign up for that class, confront that bully, make the phone call, share your story....you know what happens to that initial fear?....it disappears because that's all the power it had.

What just happened is one step into newness that is fresh with adventure and joy.

AND...I love this part! The more we do it, the better we get at it.

I even have an expectation that it's coming and I'm ready for it. How cool is that?!

In that very significant moment, we've acted in opposition and we are in the act of living out the fact that we are Overcomers.

I pray a return to that childlike creative freedom for all of us.

Even though pain and the residue that is left may try to keep us from creating worthy works that will have impact, may we know that making our mark in the world, in our circle of influence, begins with just the act of making that first mark.

I'll be talking about the process in Part 3

Blessings,

Tina

6 Words that changed my Art forever

("Empathy" the above painting is now owned by a treasured Collector)

Yes, it was 6 words said at the perfect time in the life of this artist that changed trajectory and set my feet on a path that changed my art process and purpose from that day forward.

I don't believe there is any single person who hasn't been touched by deep pain. I tend to call this a "this side of Heaven" issue.

Let's face it, we were created for a perfect garden, this world can be very painful.

Pain is inevitable. There is an ever growing list. Variations of pain inducing events and acts seem to be invented daily. Sadly, this is a human thing that we share. Whether we are experiencing it ourselves or hearing that someone is experiencing, it's a commonality that we cannot deny. How depressing a statement, but wait...

Let me go back to June of 2020.

After painting for over 30 years, I wanted to go deeper. Even though, I'd had a bit of success, had sold many paintings, received honors, and had been blessed to have been instructing and leading others in their creative pursuits, I felt like what was in my vision and my spirit, I was not at all equipped to bring forth.

I signed up for a year long art mastery program that took me back to the basics of drawing, oil painting, mixed media, acrylic painting and finding my voice. Parts of this program were actually painful for me and brought me to tears. It required a humbling and an acknowledgement that my past pain was actually getting in the way. It wasn't past, it was in my present and affecting my future as an artist who deeply desired to make an impact with my art.

That pain had me stuck, stopping me from taking risks and moving forward. I had allowed it to define me more than I was aware of. It was literally the unspoken part of my artist statement and I hated it and, to be honest, I hated parts of myself.

I came very close to quitting and resigned to myself that I was just meant to make pretty things, but that left my heart feeling unfulfilled and, truly, I knew better. I knew there was more. So I pressed on as they say.

One day, during a session on finding your voice ( a powerful lecture in the program), the instructor (Artist Elli Milan), said these powerful words...

"PAINT THE OPPOSITE OF YOUR PAIN"

These 6 powerful words changed everything!

I always felt that I needed my version of full healing and health in order to create works that were worthy and met the high calling I've felt on my life. It was a lie that kept me stranded in limiting thoughts and a defining attitude.

The sharpness of pain that results from abuse, neglect, betrayal, unwise decisions, and just life on this side of Heaven can subside but, in my experience doesn't really go away. It rears it's ugly head in the most inconvenient moments and now, I have a battle plan.....I can use it and flip the script.

When the pain comes, the memories flood in, and it threatens to stop what I've been called to do; When it attempts to remind me of a version of myself that isn't worthy to create works that can encourage and lift up others, I take those thoughts captive and submit it to the truth.

The enemy of our souls is a liar and will use everything to halt us in our tracks. Here's the good news...He is defeated!

Pain is what it is. It's a realistic, inevitable part of life, but what we put out there as creatives has the power to show up in opposition and bring a new perspective that allows a vision of hope, healing, and health to a world who is in desperate need.

Whatever you do on the daily, this applies. Live and Speak in opposition to the Pain.

Fear? paint Freedom....Ugliness?, Paint Beauty....Loneliness?, Paint belonging....

Victim?...Paint Victory!

Paint it, Speak it......This is life giving, not just to us, but to others.

So now, approach with boldness and know that creating works that speak life over others is a worthy pursuit. From vision, the first mark on the canvas, through the process, to completion, oppose the lie which is the residue left by pain.

Part 2 will go a bit deeper. There is so much more to be said.

Blessings,

Tina